If someone acts in a way that feels cruel, unsupportive, hostile, or harmful, it doesn’t mean you are currently being unsupportive or harmful toward yourself. Instead, life is asking you to contemplate: “how can I learn from what feels like cruel words or harmful actions from this person by being even more kind and supportive toward myself than ever before?” Matt Kahn |
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